Can a Domme be sweet?

I have recently been told several times that I’m sweet, and I am. I love being sweet. When you rise to my expectations, behave within bounds, and treat me correctly, I am objectively sweet. 

Don't get me wrong. I am also cruel. I inflict pain. I am a sadist. But I am a sweet sadist. I dare say, I'm an affectionate sadist. When you’re suffering, whimpering, crying, I am usually smiling and laughing.

But for very well-behaved, respectful, kind submissives, I am the sweetest. And then the pain and suffering resides in our play. It’s fun for me to punish and torture you. I love to see you obey without question, please me for the joy it brings both of us, struggle and suffer for my entertainment.

However, this results in good boys (and girls) whose expectation of a Domme to be permanently frowning, stern, and displeased, to think that somehow that means I am not, in fact, a Domme. And if that’s what you want, then I’m certainly not the Domme for you.

I am fundamentally joyful. I love laughing. I love being entertained. And I like keeping it that way. A sub who wants to see me displeased isn’t a sub for me.

So, can a Domme be fundamentally sweet? Dommes can be anything. It’s up to us. We set the standard; we determine the tone. You are there to serve our purposes, our designs. I can dominate a person without having a tight grip on every moment. 

I don’t want my subs to act out to experience my cruelty or anger (though that can be negotiated, as I do have an even darker side). I want to play with them. I want to look at them and say, “show me how badly you want this” And have them eagerly submit themselves, prostrate and begging to suffer at my hands. However, if you want to choose the hard way, push me. See how sweet I stay when I feel like you aren’t showing me the respect, devotion, and deference that I deserve. 

We are all human, and you will earn punishment at some point. Whether that’s on day one or day 300, I will find behavior that I want to correct. 

If you want to push me, you can sass back and see what I do to subs who need to learn a lesson. But know that I would much prefer to smile at you and torture you simply for the love of sadism.